🎁 Should I Buy My Wife a Vibrator?

Buying a vibrator for your wife may be beneficial for her and you. However, each person may perceive this gift differently. So, are you wondering whether the woman of your dreams will be happy to receive a vibrator? Follow the article below, add flowers and jewelry to the vibrating gift, and hope for the best! Just kidding - communication is vital for gifting vibrators, and below you will find out why.

Should You Buy Your Wife a Vibrator?

The question of ‘’should I buy my wife a vibrator’’ depends on many things. Getting her a vibrator may come from a pure place in your heart; you may want to take care of her and let her know you put her pleasure first. And she may see that. However, some women may not see it like that and may consider it offensive or even ignorant of your side. That is why we will explore both options - why you should and shouldn’t buy her a vibrator. Let’s start with the benefits.

There is a Vibrator For Every Taste, Whim, and Kink Out There

One very cool and unique thing about getting your wife a vibrator is that there is a toy for every taste! You will get a chance to choose and customize it how she would like it! By doing that, you will get the opportunity to freshen up your partner's knowledge, laying the grounds for having interesting conversations with her that will give you all the answers you seek.

A Vibrator Provides a Different Experience than a Partner Does

We all know that nothing feels better than the warmth and softness of your lover when you are laying next to each other. However, neither of you can vibrate! And the vibrator can make everything feel better for both of you (and maybe easier for you)!

A Vibrator Can Enable Your Wife or Girlfriend to Challenge Her Own Intimate Boundaries

Gifting your wife a vibrator allows her to spend time alone and explore herself. She may be too shy to tell you what she likes in bed, or she may not even know it herself. And a vibrator will be the perfect tool to change that and let her open up.

A Vibrator Can Bring You Closer

If you are sometimes away for a longer time or you and your wifey like teasing each other, a vibrator may strengthen your bond even more. There are remote vibrators that allow you to control them through an application, which can be the perfect way to show your wife you are thinking of her while she is away from you.

A Vibrator Can Help You Out in a Rut

Marriage is like a rickshaw for two. And sometimes, the road may be smooth and flat; others - it may be rocky. But you and your partner are the drivers, and you must avoid the holes, sticks, and stones on the road - together. And a vibrator is perfect for just that! It will bridge the gaps you may have when it comes to your sexual drive and make things more interesting.

A Vibrator Could Be the First Step Towards Using More Sex Toys

Getting your wife a vibrator may also feel like opening the box of Pandora, but in a good, sexual way, releasing lots and lots of orgasms. After trying it out together or letting her try it out by herself, you may feel like wanting more. And due to the variety of sex toys, the opportunities for bonding and experiencing pleasure together are limitless.

What to Consider Before Buying a Vibrator for Your Wife? (And When Not to Buy a Vibrator For Your Missus!)

We’ve talked about the good stuff; now, let’s get serious. A few signs scream ’’NO’’ when it comes to the ’’vibrator for my wife’’ question. No matter how fun, mind-opening and bonding a vibrator can be, not everyone would take it in such a way. And if you don’t want to lose your darling, pay attention before getting her a vibrator.

She Has Never Mentioned Sex Toys

If your wifey has never mentioned sex toys or that she doesn’t feel comfortable with them, abort the mission. Whether she doesn’t like the feeling of a sex toy and prefers the real thing or hasn’t found a suitable sex toy for her yet; if she is not into the idea of sex toys - don’t push it. There are lots of other gifts that can satisfy her, I promise.

You Don't Satisfy Her

Speaking of satisfaction, do not get her a vibrator just because you feel you can’t satisfy her and are not good enough. Try to find out whether you are the problem or it’s just in your head, and speak to her! Figure out ways to improve your performance in bed without machinery.

You Are Imposing YOUR Fantasy

Gifting your wife a vibrator should be an act of service from your side. It should show how much you care about her and your bond with her, not the other way around. If you want a sex toy, buy one for yourself. But if you are getting it for someone else, especially your life partner, make sure they are okay with it, too, and it’s not a selfish act.

You're Trying to Patch Up a Conflicting Situation in Your Relationship

No matter how bonding gifting a vibrator sounds, it may not help when you are trying to fix a broken relationship. Your wife may take this as the last straw, get offended, think that you don’t care about her feelings, and file for a divorce. Getting her a vibrator would be best as a gift after you have managed to fix things and have just started healing as partners again.

How to Give My Wife a Vibrator - Should I Surprise Her or Talk to Her First?

If you want to be on the safe side and have a healthy relationship with your wife, we suggest you speak to her first. We know that you want to get her the perfect gift and make her feel like she is the only girl in the world; however, it will not have the same effect if she isn’t into the idea. She will still have the same reaction to the vibrator if you tell her beforehand, but doing so has benefits. If you speak to her first, not only will you get the chance the choose it together and the experience of it will make your bond stronger, but if she decides it’s not a good idea - you are going to save up some money and get her something she would actually like. Of course, if you have gotten her a vibrator before and she loved it, you are absolutely sure she will love it again - you can surprise her!

What Vibrator to Get For Your Wife or Girlfriend?

Here are three suggestions for vibrators you should get for your female partner. All three will bring her pleasure; we can assure you of that. All three use different methods and speeds and have different sizes and shapes. It all depends on whether she would like her g-spot stimulated, her vagina, and/or her clitoris. If you know what she likes and want to surprise her, go ahead and choose one! However, if you aren’t sure - just ask her!

Rabbit Vibrator

The rabbit vibrator is two-pronged for simultaneously stimulating the vagina and the clitoris.

For your wife, we recommend our Bubbly 10X Silicone G-Spot Vibrator! With it, your wife can enjoy the heavy bunny vibe resting against her clitoris as it delivers powerful vibrations with each writhing movement or gentle stroke.

Bullet Vibrator

Bullet vibrators are the smallest and most discrete of all vibrator iterations in the sex toy world – but that doesn't mean they're any less powerful.

We recommend our E-Stim Pro Silicone Vibrating Egg with Remote Control for your wife! Featuring powerful internal motors for intense vibes and easy electric stimulation without needing a power box, wires, or electrodes.

G-Spot Vibrator

G-spot vibrators are curved to reach the G-spot easily. They may also use vibration or textures like bumps or ridges to enhance the sensation.

So, for your wife or girlfriend, we recommend our 7X 180 Degree Rotating Silicone Swivel Licking Vibrator! It has licking and vibrating features: seven different licking modes and seven different vibration modes for various combinations!

So, what’s it going to be?

Final Thoughts

By now, you should know whether you should buy your wife a vibrator, what kind of vibrator, how this may help you and her, etc. The most important thing is that both of you enjoy the gift - whether you enjoy giving it to her and seeing her reaction or she enjoys receiving it - it should be mutual. In our opinion, there is something very intimate about getting your partner a sex toy, and it can make or break you as a couple.

You need to be on the same page, especially regarding your sexual preferences, because that is when both of you are most vulnerable. That’s why - be very careful when getting her a sex toy (and vice versa), communicate about it and if she loves it… well, get her another one.