Beginner Bondage

🤔 Beginner Bondage - What Is It?

When you're just starting with BDSM, there are many toy choices out there. Beginners may benefit most from trying bondage kits designed for experimentation. Think soft materials, easy-to-use mechanisms, and comfortable positions when looking for beginner BDSM toys.

🍑 Beginner Bondage Toys Your Sex Life Could Benefit From

Blindfolds: Imagine total sensory deprivation: your eyes are shielded from even a glimmer of light, sounds are muffled, and your breaths are suppressed. All in all, your feel strong tingling and electrifying sensations throughout your body's skin. Every part of your being is tuned into the pleasure that is about to devour you. You can feel your Dom's fingers caress your neck, your chest, your buttocks, the small of your back, or the inside of your legs.

Mouth Gags: When a BDSM play gets flaming hot, silence becomes golden - a hot addition that could make all the difference in intense erotic role play. If you’ve ever played around with BDSM or at least watched others do it, you might have seen them use some form of gags. You might have also thought about consensually preventing your partner from talking. Then it’s time to get accustomed to this category of sex toys - mouth gags or ball gags. You might have them referred to as “ball gags,” but that’s just one type of gag in production. A mouth gag is an easy-to-use tool used in sexual bondage and Dominant/sub roleplay. You strap the gag into your mouth, which many consider a very private and intimate part of your body, to arouse feelings of vulnerability, helplessness, humiliation, frustration, embarrassment, submission, etc...

Restraints: A bondage restraint is a sex restraint that is used during sexual activities. These types of restraints are most common in bondage play and BDSM scenes. They are designed to keep a submissive from escaping or moving. They are often used during acts such as erotic humiliation, cock-and-ball torture, and discipline. Being restrained helps increase a submissive's feelings of helplessness and humiliation, and makes it appear as though a dominant is in complete control.

Wartenberg Pinwheel: The Wartenberg Pinwheel is a wonderful sensation play toy that is a must for everyone's kinky bondage tool kit. Pinwheels look like small pizza cutters but have tiny spikes on the end around the wheel. To use a Wartenberg wheel, roll it firmly but gently across your lover’s skin. If you apply a great amount of pressure, it’s possible to pierce the skin. Be sure to test it on yourself to find the right touch before trying it on others. It’s great to use paired up with sensory deprivation and feels best rolled over tender areas like nipples, the back of the neck, inside of the thighs, etc.

Body Clamps: Clamps offer so many possibilities. They can be used on the labia, testicles, tongues and lips, and other parts of the body. Adjustable, tweezer-style clamps have the lightest grip while Japanese clover clamps are intended for those who can tolerate a lot of pressure. One of the best things to use as starter clamps is simple wooden clothespins. 

Dildos & Vibrators: We know that must come off as a surprise, however, dildos and vibrators are absolutely great for BDSM pleasure, pain, and power play sessions. One of the most popular types of vibrators for BDSM is wand-style body massagers. A cordless version is perfect to affix to someone's body with rope bondage or bondage tape. Vibrators can be used for pleasure or consensual forced orgasm play. Don’t forget, they aren’t just for vulvas and vaginas; penises like vibration too. It’s also a good idea to also have some non-vibrating insertables in close proximity, like a butt plug or curved glass toy for a quick and unexpected P-Spot stimulation.

Riding Crops: In case you weren't aware, a riding crop is a whip that is primarily designed for whipping horses during horse-riding races to make them go faster or encourage them to do things or behave in a certain way. However, they’re also very popular in BDSM sex cultures as impact tools, finding a second niche as BDSM spanking tools for beginners and enthusiast spankers alike!

Most modern riding crops consist of a fiberglass shaft which is firm yet flexible and covered in leather or a similar material. The handle is usually thicker than the main shaft, making it easier to hold, and the whipping end has a tress, leather tongue, cord, or a similar piece of material called a “keeper” or a “popper” which is the part that hits the subject of spanking.

Canes: A BDSM cane is a long whip, paddle, or cane used during BDSM play to whip or spank a partner. These canes are usually made from leather, faux leather, silicone, plastic, bamboo, or rattan, and are available in both straight & crook (curved handle) variants. Depending on the material used, a BDSM cane can deliver a sharp stinging sensation, a dull "thud" or "thump", or anywhere in-between!

Flogger: Bondage floggers and whips make up an important part of virtually any BDSM play session. If you or your partner have some experience with kink, it is usually not very difficult to choose a sex whip or flogger. However, those who have just started to explore BDSM play should remember that the choice of toy and technique makes a world of difference when it comes to the sensations you experience.

A flogger is a type of sex toy that is related to many forms of BDSM-style intercourse or play. Often also referred to as a whip, a spanker, or a flail, a flogger is a compact form of whip and can be very easily used to provide pain sensation play from a dominant to a submissive. With BDSM growing ever-popular in mainstream culture, we’re seeing more and more people waking up to the fun that a bit of controlled pain can provide in the bedroom. Plus, floggers make a very satisfying sound when you’re punishing your partner.