How To Use a Dildo? | The #1 Dildo Using Guide You'll Ever Need

by TheDildo Hub

The dildo is by far the most famous pleasure product by both men and women. Dildo is life! Even though there are many other styles that often provide stronger orgasms than a simple penis-shaped shaft recreating the bulging boner of a strong hunk, the dildo remains a timeless classic, the traditional, and often the first pleasure product anyone will ever purchase.

There's nothing wrong with masturbation and this is something we strongly encourage, however, penis-havers and vulva-owners are all fantasizing about penetration activities whilst catering to their intimate urges. A good booty-calling always demands either a cock or a sturdy dildo, and a big bulging lover is always at the forefront of our sexual fantasies. It's simply natural – our bodies enjoy the feeling of good sex!

When we feel sexually aroused, the muscles around our love holes soften and relax. We crave the excitement, the stimulation, the urge to go beyond our intimate boundaries. It's the natural inner erotic impulse to chase sizzling hot sexual intercourses - by ourselves, with our partners, or with the help of a dildo.

That's exactly why we catch ourselves scrolling through pages and pages of dildos and other pleasure products online, or shyly stepping into physical sex toy stores. We can fulfill the secret naughty fantasy without needing to be in public. Buying from a sex shop online is so discreet that we don't have to feel embarrassed about satisfying our erotic desires.

Another advantage of shopping for sex toys online is that customers have access to a wealth of information from the people behind the brand. If you've ever wondered how to use a dildo, this comprehensive user guide will provide information, insights, techniques, instructions, and tips on how to properly use your new dildo for maximum titillation and enjoyment. Feeling like cummin' tonight? We bet!

It's important to remember that not all how-to-use dildo instructions are the same, different features require different techniques. Worry not though, all of the dildo-using secrets are at your disposal and you may challenge them after you're done with this article. You can find your favorite style in a jiffy by simply scrolling through the handy table of contents.

🤔 How to Pick Just The Right Type of Dildo For Your Pleasure Sessions?

Picking the right dildo is key when learning how to properly use your new sex toy, especially knowing that there are lots of different types of dildos out there.

  • Glass Dildos: Best for temperature play and hard stimulation
  • Silicone Dildos: Usually flexible for easier stimulation and exhilarating erotic titillations
  • Large Dildos / Extreme Dildos: Gives the feeling of being stretched and shagged by a strong hunk
  • Suction Cup Dildos: The suction cup feature allows you to ride your dildo and get into more positions by affixing it to any hard surface
  • Double-Ended Dildos: Double penetration, flexible and ideal for those who like the full feeling but are also into partner play
  • Stainless Steel Dildos: Ideal for temperature play and more rigid stimulation
  • Fantasy Dildos / Dragon Dildos / Tentacle Dildos - Perfect if you want something with no anatomy and ideal to experiment with different roleplay scenarios
  • Rabbit Vibrator: Nipple, Clitoral and G-spot stimulation right where you need it the most

If you still cant decide on what toy to get read our guide on getting a dildo vs vibrator.

 

🎁 How To Insert The Dildo and Get The Perfect Pleasure Where It Matters

It’s essential to warm yourself up before using any kind of sex toy - set the right mood by lighting some candles, turning off the lights and get ready for some special "you" time. The more aroused you are, the easier it’ll be to have a G-spot or a P-spot orgasm.



Now that you're on your way to learning to use your dildo, please know that the more aroused you are, the easier it'll be to have a G-spot or a P-spot orgasm. Touching your body where it matters, stimulating your intimate zones with your fingers, playing sexy music, watching a bit of porn if that's your flavor, reading erotic stories will all add up to your excitement. If you're ready to include your dildo into your erotic play, please follow the steps below:

  • Apply generous amount of water-based personal lubricant on your dildo's head
  • By twisting your hand, spread water-based lube around the top half of your dildo's shaft
  • Apply lube on your finger(s), as well as around your love holes
  • Don't be shy on the lube, apply a generous amount before inserting your dildo
  • Help yourself and use your fingers to spread your labia or butt hole with your index and middle finger
  • Start by slowly inserting your dildo's head and get a feeling of your new companion
  • Push the dildo's shaft in & out slowly to spread the lube evenly
  • Savor the intimate experience!

💯 Using Your Dildo Masterfully Can Deliver Powerful, Satisfying Orgasms

Thrusting matters! Whilst there are endless techniques on using your dildo, the sex ed folks behind The Dildo Hub brand recommend the following:

🎵 Think Rhytmically and Rely on Shallow Thrusting

Shallow thrusting will stimulate your G-spot but will also stimulate your clitoris. Start slowly and build up speed by thrusting in and out of your vagina. The same goes for men, shallow thrusting will help find and stimulate your P-spot. Thank us later.

Move the toy in & out smooth and sensually. Think of erotic, passionate sex that starts out slow and builds up slowly as the body increases its sexual response. Increase thrusting motion as you feel more aroused. The best position to be in for this is on your back with your dildo in your dominant hand or on all fours as this gives you total control over how far in your dildo will go.

Men and women love this technique as it can give them double the stimulation and the short thrusts stimulate your vaginal and anal openings which feels amazing.

🍆 Intensify the Movement and Go For Deep Thrusting

Deep thrusting is what a lot of people think you always have to do with a dildo and they aren’t really that wrong, deep thrusting feels amazing.

Deep thrusting consists of pushing the dildo all the way in and bringing it out again, starting slowly and working your way up to a quick motion. This stimulates the G-spot, A-spot and with the right moves will get you on your way to achieving the perfect, satisfying orgasm. Some people like also to play between deep thrusts and shallow thrusts, combining the two feels incredible. We confirm!

💦 Milk Your G-spot Like a Pornstar

Milking your G-spot is all about running the dildo across the top of the inside of your vagina and thrusting enough so that you stimulate your G-spot in short sharp bursts.

Milking your G-spot is how you can achieve squirting orgasms. Just be persistent and keep the erotic motion going. Despite what science is stating, your G-spot isn't hard to find, just angle your dildo upwards your bladder and apply extra pressure with each thrust. Thank us later!

💦 Milk Your P-spot To Experience New Pleasure Heights

Learning how to use a dildo to milk your P-spot and achieve an orgasm shouldn't be rocket science. There are some easy steps and techniques you may rely on when you're playing with your dildo, and you can really mix it up by adding pressure and depth into your erotic sessions.

Controlling pressure when using a dildo is easier, especially when you’re playing solo. Try pressing the toy against the prostate using more or less pressure till you find your sweet spot. Depth is another area where toys win out since reaching can make it hard to go deep if that’s what you crave. Try different sized anal toys or get a longer one that you can insert as deep as your bottom desires.

🍑 Rotate The Head of Your Dildo, and Its Shaft

Rotating the dildo is another great way to use your dildo and a technique many men and women are relying on. Begin by inserting like normal and at the point of your G-spot begin twisting the dildo for awesome internal stimulation.

Rotating the dildo is a great teaser and will always get you aroused and ready to cum. You can also try inserting the dildo and twisting at the entrance and then thrust it in when you feel ready. Once inside, rotating your dildo feels absolutely amazing when you're stimulating your P-spot.

💣 Use Your Dildo(s) to Engage Into Double Stimulation

The double stimulation is great and one of the most popular techniques, although it can get tiresome and requires some practice.

For vulva-owners, stimulate your clitoris with your fingers or a vibrator and use your other hand to thrust the dildo inside of you. It'd be even better if your dildo has a suction cup feature that you can affix to any hard and flat surface. Stimulate your butt with a butt plug and use your free hand to thrust inside of your vagina. You'll enjoy both of these easy techniques as they'll provide that signature fulfilling sensation you have been yearning for, and build the foundation to experience a blended orgasm.

For penis-havers, stimulate your cock with your hands or even better, with a vibrating cock ring and use your other hand to thrust the dildo inside of you. Got a suction cup dildo? Affix it in your bathroom, bedroom drawer, your car hood, and shag yourself till you squirt your P juice all over the place.

👉 👌 The Best Sex Positions To Use & Ride Your Dildo

To get the most from your dildo you need to be in the best position for you, you may find different dildos that require you to be indifferent positions but in general, it is best to find your favorite dildo sex position for ultimate pleasure and comfortability.

1. On Your Back

With your legs bent and up in the air, lean forward and thrust the dildo inside of you whilst on your back. You can also twist to one side and insert the dildo whilst you are on your side which makes your pussy slightly tighter but it does feel great if you like the filling sensation.

2. On All Fours

Who doesn't like to take it doggy style? Using your dildo on all fours is ah-mazing, especially if you can affix your dildo to any smooth and hard surface. The stimulation you're bound to receive is totally out of this world. Also, it's super easy to stroke your penis or reach your clitoris in this position, and it's a great way to learn more about your intimate boundaries.

3. Sitting (Bedside, Chair, Sofa, Floor)

Sitting in an upright position with your legs slightly bent allows you to experience a deep filling sensation, it’s easy to reach your G-spot in this position and it’s an awesome position to be in if your partner likes to watch.

4. Utilize your suction cup

One of the reasons we love dildos so much is because of the almighty suction cup. The suction cup feature allows you to experience endless positions by giving you more freedom to explore. Raise your glasses to a few of the places and positions you can experiment with:

  • Stand up doggy style
  • Riding it on a chair
  • On your shower wall
  • On a glass table or a bowl
  • On your bed headboard
  • Riding it on the floor
  • Against the wall

🛒 Where To Buy a Dildo From?

The Dildo Hub is one of America's largest online sex toy retailers, offering 5000+ adult novelties and pleasure products. Our philosophy is simple - we deliver sex-positive pleasure to your world. If you're wondering where you should buy a dildo or anything else that goes in or around your intimate zones, you've come to the right place.

On a budget? Check out our high-quality fair-priced dildos. We've got you covered with a good selection of affordable pleasure products, including a myriad of fun-loving realistic dildos or fantasy dildos. Remember, being inexpensive does not mean poor quality, nor questionable materials. Always read the product descriptions and make an informed purchase decision.

We've taken the liberty of listing only high-quality hand-picked pleasure products for sale. Place your discreet online order today. We look forward to delivering pleasure to your world. Thank you for finishing this article and thank you for being a customer!


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