Canes and Rods

❤️ The 3 Rules of BDSM - Safe, Sane, and Consensual!

Before you start jumping into the boundless world of bondage, there are some things you should know first. Regardless of what form of BDSM accessories you try, from canes to floggers and bdsm masks you need to make sure that you are comfortable with everything.

🤔 Are BDSM Canes & BDSM Rods Safe to Use?

Yes, the incorporation of BDSM canes and rods in erotic play is completely safe. As long you feel safe with your partner and can communicate with them confidently. It’s important to have a safe word so that if it gets too much, you can stop or slow down.

🍑 How Does a BDSM Cane Feel Like? 

The great thing about sex canes is that you can really feel a variety of sensations, anything from a tickle to a smack to a sting. If you use a cane with lots of impacts you may be left with raised, red marks on your skin. This is completely normal and they should disappear within 24-48 hours.

😈 Which Size of BDSM Cane is Right For You? 

The world of BDSM canes can be intimidating and confusing, especially if it’s your first time. They can be a lot of fun to explore, but where do you start and how do you know which cane is right for you? Here are a few factors to take into consideration:

Personal Experience: If you’re a beginner, opt for a smaller BDSM cane so that it’s not too intimidating and you can explore what kind of sensations you like. Intermediate and advanced players might want to invest in a larger, more expensive cane once you know what you’re into. Why not explore other materials like leather, silicone, or even rattan?

Pain tolerance: Consider how high your or your partner’s pain threshold is, this will determine the thickness and material you’ll go for.

Impact: If you’re looking for a harder impact then a larger surface area will give you just that. If you’re looking for a sharp sting, then a thin whipping cane will do just the trick. Looking for a tickle? Opt for a tassel-ended cane.

Thickness: If you’re looking for a harder impact then a larger surface area will give you just that. If you’re looking for a sharp sting, then a thin whipping cane will do just the trick. Looking for a tickle? Opt for a tassel-ended cane.

Material: There are canes made out of all sorts of materials on the market now with the most common being leather, silicone, and bamboo which will all leave a different sensation. Silicone is cheaper and probably a better way for beginners to explore BDSM canning, as it has less impact. Leather will give you more of a satisfying spanking sound and leave a lasting sting. Rattan cane BDSM is perfect for punishment as it’s a much harder and stiffer material, this is definitely a material that advanced players should explore!