BIG DADDY - FIVE SIZES
A Closer Look at the Big Daddy Fantasy Dildo
The Big Daddy from Mr Hankey's Toys is a handcrafted, full-bodied realistic dildo built for depth and size play. A sculpted head leads into a thick, contoured shaft that widens toward the base — a deliberately gradual stretch that builds the deeper you go. Hand-poured in platinum-cured silicone with realistic vein and light texture, it comes in five sizes so the same shape scales from a beginner-friendly XS up to a fantasy-scale XXXL. The decision is which size matches your experience, and firmness options let you tune how it all feels.
Why "widens toward the base" changes the experience. On most realistic toys the widest point is the middle, so the stretch peaks and then eases. The Big Daddy is built the other way — it's narrowest at the head and widest at the base, so the fullness builds gradually the deeper you take it, peaking at full depth rather than at entry. That gradual ramp is what makes it a depth-play favorite: easy to start, progressively more demanding as you go.
Key Features — Big Daddy
| Base-heavy, building stretch | Narrowest at the head, widest at the base — the fullness builds toward full depth |
| Sculpted head, contoured shaft | A lifelike head and thick, contoured shaft with realistic vein and light texture |
| Depth-forward design | Built for deep exploration — insertable length reaches up to 14.5" on the XXXL |
| Five escalating sizes | XS through XXXL — the same sculpt scaled for beginners to advanced users |
| Dual lube compatibility | Works with both water-based and silicone-based lubricants |
| Platinum-cured silicone | Body-safe, non-porous, hypoallergenic — durable and easy to clean thoroughly |
Size Chart — Five Sizes
The same sculpt scales significantly across the range, and the widest point is the base, not the middle. Read the base girth and insertable length carefully — the XXXL reaches a deep 14.5" insertable, and the XXXL has no strap-on ring.
| Measurement | XS | Small | Medium | Large | XXXL |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Head circ. (rim) | 4.5" (11.4 cm) | 6.5" (16.5 cm) | 7.5" (19.1 cm) | 8.75" (22.2 cm) | 9.75" (24.8 cm) |
| Middle circ. | 5.25" (13.3 cm) | 7.5" (19.1 cm) | 8.75" (22.2 cm) | 10" (25.4 cm) | 11" (27.9 cm) |
| Base circ. (widest) | 5.75" (14.6 cm) | 8.75" (22.2 cm) | 10" (25.4 cm) | 11.25" (28.6 cm) | 12.5" (31.8 cm) |
| Insertable length | 7" (17.8 cm) | 10" (25.4 cm) | 11.5" (29.2 cm) | 13" (33.0 cm) | 14.5" (36.8 cm) |
| Overall length | — | 11" (27.9 cm) | 12.5" (31.8 cm) | 14" (35.6 cm) | 15.5" (39.4 cm) |
| Strap-on ring | — | 2.5" (6.35 cm) | 3" (7.62 cm) | 3" (7.62 cm) | — |
Texture is smooth with veins and light detail across all sizes. Colors are hand-mixed and tones vary (pictured in Natural Tan with Remove-O-Balls, which are sold separately). Vac-U-Holes are not available for the XS size.
Choose Your Firmness
Four options — same shape and dimensions per size, very different feel
| 40% Soft | The most lifelike and flexible — gives and bends easily; the most forgiving option for the building stretch |
| 75% Soft | A balanced middle ground with comfort and some structure |
| Medium Firm | Holds its shape for solid, deliberate pressure — the base girth is felt more directly |
| Extra Firm | Rigid and unyielding — maximum control and intensity at depth |
With a base-heavy shape, firmness matters most at depth — a softer pour follows the body's contours more naturally as the stretch builds. Mr Hankey's offers a Sample Pack to feel the options before committing.
Who It's For
A good match if you…
- Enjoy depth play and a stretch that builds gradually toward the base
- Are anywhere from newer (XS/Small) to highly experienced (Large, XXXL)
- Like a sculpted head and realistic vein and light texture
- Want a strap-on-ready option (Small, Medium, or Large)
Rethink — or size down — if you…
- Are drawn to the Large or XXXL on looks alone — 13–14.5" insertable is a serious depth commitment
- Aren't comfortable with a base girth of 11–12.5" on the biggest sizes
- Need a strap-on ring — the XXXL doesn't include one
- Want a Vac-U-Hole — not available on the XS
General guidance only — comfort varies person to person. Because the stretch builds toward the base, go slow on depth and let the fullness ramp — pick the size just past your current comfort rather than the largest.
Material & Body Safety
What it's made of, and why it matters
- Material: platinum-cured silicone (per Mr Hankey's Toys) — the higher-grade silicone cure, valued for purity and durability; hypoallergenic
- Non-porous: no microscopic pores to harbor bacteria, so it can be cleaned thoroughly between uses
- Lubricant: Mr Hankey's lists the Big Daddy as compatible with both water-based and silicone-based lubricants, so you can choose whichever suits your play. If you do use a silicone lube, it's still good practice to spot-test on the base first and reapply generously — especially at depth on the larger sizes.
- Cleaning: wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy-safe cleaner; rinse thoroughly and air-dry fully
- Storage: store dry in a cool, dark place, on its own, to preserve the silicone and color
Material & safety information last reviewed: 08/04/2026, based on Mr Hankey's Toys product specifications.
What to Expect & How to Use It
The Big Daddy is a depth-and-fullness piece with a building stretch. The sculpted head eases entry easily — it's the narrowest point — and the shaft then widens steadily toward the base, so the fullness peaks as you reach full depth rather than at the start. That gradual ramp rewards patience and warm-up.
- Lube generously at the head with water-based or silicone lube — your choice on this piece
- Let the head ease in first — it's the narrowest point, so entry is the easy part
- Go slow as it widens — the stretch builds toward the base, so don't rush the last inches
- Warm up thoroughly — insertable length reaches up to 14.5", a serious depth commitment for anal play
- Start in a softer firmness if you're new to the size you've chosen — it follows the body's contours more naturally at depth
- For strap-on play, choose Small (2.5"), Medium (3"), or Large (3") — the XXXL has no ring
FAQs — Big Daddy
How many sizes does the Big Daddy come in?
Five: XS, Small, Medium, Large, and XXXL. Insertable length runs from 7" up to a deep 14.5", and base girth from 5.75" up to 12.5". Because the shape widens toward the base, check the base girth and insertable length carefully. Mr Hankey's also offers a Sample Pack to feel the firmness options.
Why is the base wider than the middle?
That's the defining trait of the Big Daddy. It's narrowest at the head and widest at the base, so the fullness builds gradually the deeper you go and peaks at full depth rather than at entry. It makes for an easy start and a progressively more demanding finish — a favorite for depth play.
Can I use silicone lube with it?
Yes — Mr Hankey's lists the Big Daddy as compatible with both water-based and silicone-based lubricants, so you can use whichever you prefer. As general good practice with any silicone toy, a quick spot-test on the base before first use doesn't hurt.
Do all sizes have a strap-on ring?
No — the Small (2.5"), Medium (3"), and Large (3") include a strap-on ring, but the XXXL does not. If you're planning harness play, choose Small, Medium, or Large.
Can I get a Vac-U-Hole on any size?
Vac-U-Holes are available on the Big Daddy, but not on the XS size. If a Vac-U-Hole matters to you, choose Small or larger.
What's it made of, and is it body-safe?
Platinum-cured, hypoallergenic silicone, per Mr Hankey's Toys. Non-porous and easy to clean thoroughly. See the Material & Body Safety section above for full detail.
How do I buy it, and who ships it?
The Big Daddy is sold and shipped by Mr Hankey's Toys. Use the links on this page to view current sizes, firmness options, colors, and pricing and to complete your order on their site. We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you.
Feel the Fullness
If you want a depth-forward realistic piece with a gradual, building stretch and a five-size range to grow into — a sculpted head, contoured shaft, and dual lube compatibility — the Big Daddy delivers. Pick your size and firmness, choose a colorway, and head over to Mr Hankey's Toys to make it yours.
Please note: Product details, specifications, sizes, firmness options, colors, availability, and pricing shown here are based on information from Mr Hankey's Toys and may have changed since this page was last updated. Colors are hand-mixed and may vary, and a product may be discontinued without our knowledge. Always confirm the current details on Mr Hankey's Toys before completing your purchase.
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