What is the difference between an anal relaxer and a numbing cream? A numbing cream uses an anesthetic such as lidocaine or benzocaine to dull feeling. That can hide discomfort, which is your body's signal to slow down. A relaxer works differently. Relax contains neither of those agents. The maker describes a gentle warming effect that helps the anal muscles ease, while sensation stays intact. You still feel everything, so you can still tell when to pause, add lubricant or stop.
Relax Anal Relaxer: warms and eases, keeps sensation
Relax is a water-based anal relaxer from Doc Johnson, made for use before anal play. The maker describes it as gently warming and relaxing the anal muscles so that entry is easier. It does this without numbing: the formula has no lidocaine and no benzocaine, so you keep full sensation.
It is made for both men and women. The formula is described as natural and is free of parabens and sugar. This is the 2 oz size, made in America.
Best for: For anyone, of any gender, who finds it hard to relax at the start of anal play and does not want to lose feeling. It suits beginners in particular. Use it as preparation, together with plenty of lubricant, and go slowly.
At a glance: Relaxes without numbing · Gentle warming · Water-based · No lidocaine or benzocaine · 2 oz
Key features
| Relaxes without numbing |
Helps the muscles ease while you keep full sensation. |
| Gentle warming |
A light warming effect described as helping the area relax. |
| No lidocaine or benzocaine |
Contains neither of the common numbing agents. |
| Water-based formula |
A water-based gel free of parabens and sugar. |
| For everyone |
Made for both men and women. |
Specifications
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Size: 2 oz
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Base: Water-based
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Free from: Parabens, sugar, lidocaine, benzocaine
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For: Men and women
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Made in: USA
How to use
Check the directions on the pack first. Apply a small amount to the outside of the anus with a clean fingertip and massage it in gently. Give it a few minutes; the maker describes a light warming effect as it works. Then add a generous amount of lubricant, since a relaxer is not a substitute for one. Begin with a finger or a small toy and move up slowly. Because this product does not numb, any pain is a clear sign to stop, add lubricant or slow down. Wash your hands after applying.
Care
- Close the cap firmly after use.
- Store at room temperature, away from heat and sunlight.
- Always use a separate lubricant as well; a water-based one suits all toys.
- Wash hands after applying and rinse skin with warm water afterwards.
- Stop using it if the warming feels uncomfortable or irritation occurs.
Frequently asked questions
Does it numb?
No. The maker states that it relaxes without numbing, and the formula contains no lidocaine or benzocaine. You keep normal sensation, which helps you notice when to slow down.
Does it replace lubricant?
No. It is a relaxer, used to prepare. The body does not lubricate the anus on its own, so always add a generous amount of lubricant after applying it.
Will I feel it working?
The maker describes a gentle warming effect. Expect a mild warmth where it is applied, not heat. If it feels too strong, wash it off with warm water.
Is it for men or women?
Both. The maker describes it as made for men and women alike, which is where the 'for Everyone' in the name comes from.
Can I use it with condoms and toys?
It is water-based, but the product information does not state condom or toy compatibility. Check the label on the pack before relying on it with either.
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
