Can the dildo in a strap-on set be used without the harness? In this set, yes. The dildo is held in the harness by an O-ring, not fixed to it, so it comes out whenever you want. You can use it by hand for solo play, as a warm-up before strap-on sex, or as a second toy during a session. The harness works without this dildo too. It comes with three O-rings in different sizes, so other dildos can be mounted in it. That makes the set two separate items: a very large dildo and a reusable harness.
11 inch silicone dildo with harness for experienced users
This strap-on set is built around an oversized realistic dildo. It is 11 in long overall with 7.8 in insertable. The shaft starts at 1.6 in across at its narrowest and widens to 3.2 in at its thickest point, so girth is the main feature. It has a sculpted head and a veined surface, and it is made from phthalate-free silicone that is nonporous and stays flexible while holding firm.
The harness is vegan leather with elastic and iron hardware. Straps tighten at the waist, which fits 30.75 in to 40 in, and at the thighs. Three O-rings with inner diameters of 2.25 in, 2.5 in and 2.75 in let you mount other toys in the same harness.
Best for: Experienced users who want serious girth and have already worked up to large toys. It suits strap-on sex where the wearer takes the lead, and the dildo can be removed for solo use or as a warm-up toy.
At a glance: 7.8 in insertable · 3.2 in widest diameter · Phthalate-free silicone · Detachable dildo · 3 O-rings included
Key features
| Oversized realistic shaft |
A thick, veined shaft with a sculpted head, widening to 3.2 in for a very full feel. |
| Detachable dildo |
Take the dildo out of the harness to use it by hand or as a second toy. |
| Phthalate-free silicone |
Nonporous and body-safe, so it cleans easily with warm water and toy cleaner. |
| Adjustable harness |
Vegan leather straps tighten at the waist and thighs to keep the dildo steady. |
| Three O-rings |
Rings of 2.25 in, 2.5 in and 2.75 in let you fit different toys to the harness. |
Specifications
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Dildo overall length: 11 in
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Insertable length: 7.8 in
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Narrowest insertable diameter: 1.6 in
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Widest insertable diameter: 3.2 in
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Harness waist range: 30.75 in to 40 in
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Thigh strap length: Up to 25 in (unstretched)
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O-ring sizes: 2.25 in, 2.5 in, 2.75 in inner diameter
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Dildo material: Premium silicone
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Harness materials: Vegan leather, elastic, iron
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Color: Flesh / black
In the box
- Silicone dildo
- Vegan leather harness
- 3 O-rings (2.25 in, 2.5 in, 2.75 in)
How to use
Wash the dildo with warm water and toy cleaner before first use. Fit the O-ring that holds the shaft most securely, then feed the dildo through it so the base rests against the harness. Put the harness on and tighten the waist and thigh straps until nothing shifts. Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant. A 3.2 in diameter needs patience, so warm up with fingers or a smaller toy first. Go slowly, let the receiving partner control the depth, and stop if there is sharp pain. Reapply lubricant often.
Care
- Use water-based lubricant only.
- Wash the dildo with warm water and toy cleaner after each use, then pat it dry.
- Wipe the vegan leather harness with a damp cloth and let it air dry.
- Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
- Keep the dildo separated from other toys.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
How thick is it?
The insertable part measures 1.6 in across at its narrowest and 3.2 in at its widest. That is very thick. It is a size for people who are already comfortable with large toys, not a first dildo.
How does it compare with the 10 inch set?
The 10 inch dildo has 7.1 in insertable and is 2.3 in at its widest. This one has 7.8 in insertable and reaches 3.2 in across. The length is similar, but this one is much thicker. The harness sizing is the same on both.
Can the dildo be used on its own?
Yes. The dildo is fully detachable. Remove it from the O-ring and use it by hand for solo play, for foreplay, or alongside another toy during a session with a partner.
Which lubricant should I use?
Water-based lubricant only, as the maker's note says. Use plenty on the toy and on your partner, and reapply during use. A toy this wide needs more lubricant than a standard dildo does.
What sizes does the harness fit?
The waist adjusts from 30.75 in to 40 in. The thigh strap adjusts up to 25 in, measured unstretched. Compare those figures with your own waist and upper thigh measurements before you order.
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.