What is a packer and how is it different from a dildo? A packer is a soft, flaccid-style penis worn inside underwear to create the look and feel of a bulge. It is meant for everyday wear, not for penetration, so it is pliable where a dildo is firm. Many trans men, transmasculine and nonbinary people wear one because it is gender affirming. Others pack for drag or costume. This one is made of soft silicone with realistic detail and can be tucked and adjusted until it sits right.
Strap U 3.6 inch packer: a compact everyday bulge
The Strap U 3.6 inch Silicone Packer is a soft, flaccid packer made to be worn under clothing. It is 3.6 inches long overall, with a 3.1 inch shaft that is 1.3 inches at its widest. Realistic detailing gives it an authentic look, and the pliable silicone lets you tuck and position it so the bulge looks and feels natural.
It is made of body-safe silicone and comes in two skin tones, light and medium. The compact size keeps the bulge subtle, which suits slimmer cuts of trousers and smaller frames. Both tones share exactly the same shape and measurements.
Best for: For transmasculine and masculine-presenting people who want an everyday packer with a modest profile, and for anyone packing for the first time. It is worn in snug underwear or a packing pouch. It is not firm enough for penetration.
At a glance: 3.6 in overall · Soft silicone · Realistic detail · 2 skin tones
Key features
| Realistic detail |
Sculpted to look authentic under clothing and to the touch. |
| Soft and pliable |
The flaccid shape can be tucked and adjusted until it sits right. |
| Natural bulge |
Fills out underwear and feels real when brushed against. |
| Gender affirming |
Designed with masculine-presenting wearers in mind. |
| Body-safe silicone |
Made of silicone that is easy to wash and keep clean. |
Specifications
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Overall length: 3.6 in
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Shaft length: 3.1 in
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Widest shaft width: 1.3 in
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Material: Silicone
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Colors: Light, Medium
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Styles: Light, Medium
How to use
Wash the packer before first wear and dry it completely. Place it in the front of snug briefs, boxer briefs or a packing pouch, with the shaft pointing down or slightly to one side. Adjust until the bulge looks natural in the trousers you plan to wear, then move around, sit and walk to check that it stays put. A light dusting of cornstarch can keep the silicone from feeling tacky against the skin. Wash it after each day of wear.
Care
- If you use lubricant with it, use water-based only.
- Wash with warm water and mild soap after each wear.
- Pat dry with a lint-free cloth and let it air dry fully.
- Store it separately from other silicone items, out of direct sunlight.
- Solid silicone with no motor can be washed as often as needed.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Which size packer should I choose?
This 3.6 inch model gives a smaller, subtle bulge. The 5 inch uncut packer in the same line has a 3.8 inch shaft that is 1.6 inches wide, so it looks fuller. Choose by frame size and how noticeable you want it to be.
Can it be used for sex?
No. It is a soft, flaccid packer designed for wearing, not for penetration. For that you need a firm dildo and a harness, or a pack-and-play model made for both purposes.
What is the difference between light and medium?
Only the skin tone. Both versions have the same size, shape and silicone. Pick the tone closest to your own if you want it to look natural when seen. Check the photos.
How do I keep it in place?
The facts do not mention a harness or pouch being included. Snug briefs or boxer briefs hold most small packers well. Packing underwear with a built-in pocket gives the most secure fit.
Does it need lubricant?
Not for packing. The distributor's guidance is that only water-based lubricant should be used with this silicone, so avoid silicone-based or oil-based products near it. Soap and warm water are all you need for cleaning.
Choose your skin tone
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
