What makes a wand massager different from other vibrators? A wand is an external vibrator with a long handle and a broad, rounded head. The large head spreads strong vibration over a wide area instead of focusing it on one small point, which many people find easier to enjoy for longer. The handle gives reach and leverage, so it is comfortable to hold in different positions. A flexible neck, as on this wand, lets the head tilt and follow the body.
My Secret Wand: big power, soft silicone, waterproof
The Evolved My Secret Wand is a full-size wand massager covered in smooth silicone. The head is flexible, so it tilts with your body instead of pressing at one fixed angle. There are seven vibration speeds and functions to choose from, so you can go from a light hum to the full strength of a wand the maker calls big and powerful.
It is waterproof and submersible, which makes it suitable for the bath or shower, and it recharges by USB. A storage bag comes with it for keeping it clean between uses. Its exact measurements are not published by the supplier, however.
Best for: For anyone who likes strong, broad external stimulation, and for people who find small bullets too pinpoint. It also suits couples, since the long handle makes it easy to hold against a partner during sex.
At a glance: 7 vibrating functions · Flexible head · Silicone · USB rechargeable · Submersible
Key features
| Flexible head |
The head bends to follow your body and keep even contact. |
| Seven settings |
Seven vibration speeds and functions to step through. |
| Silicone surface |
A soft, smooth finish that feels gentle on the skin. |
| Waterproof and submersible |
Take it into the bath or shower. |
| USB rechargeable |
Charges with the included cord. |
| Storage bag |
Keeps the wand dust free and out of sight. |
Specifications
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Material: Silicone
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Settings: 7 vibrating functions
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Head: Flexible
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Power: USB rechargeable
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Waterproof: Yes, submersible
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Color: Purple
In the box
- Wand
- USB charging cord
- Storage bag
How to use
Give the wand a full charge with the USB cord before first use. Start on the lowest setting and rest the head against the outer thigh or over underwear to get used to the strength. Move it to the clitoris or wherever feels good, and let the flexible head tilt instead of pressing hard. Step through the seven settings to find a speed or pattern you like. A drop of water-based lubricant on the head helps it glide. Wash it afterwards and store it in the bag.
Care
- Use water-based lubricant only on the silicone head.
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner after each use.
- Dry fully before charging by USB.
- Never boil it or put it in a dishwasher.
- Keep it in the storage bag, away from other silicone toys.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Is a wand used internally?
A wand is made for external use. The broad head is meant to rest against the clitoris, vulva or other sensitive areas, and it also works well on the body as a general massager.
How many settings does it have?
Seven vibration speeds and functions. Begin on the lowest one, as the maker describes this wand as big and powerful, and work up from there. One wand covers both gentle and intense use.
Can I use it in the bath or shower?
Yes. The maker states it is completely waterproof and submersible. Dry it thoroughly before you connect the charging cord. Water-based lubricant rinses off quickly in water, so reapply it if needed.
What comes in the box?
The wand itself, a USB charging cord and a storage bag. No wall adapter is listed, so plan to plug the cord into a USB port or an adapter you already own.
Is it suitable for beginners?
Yes, with a gentle start. Wands are easy to use because there is nothing to insert. Use the lowest setting first, or place a layer of fabric between you and the head.
Keep this one a secret
Add the Evolved My Secret Wand Silicone Wand Massager to your cart for plain packaging, privacy-safe billing and a mystery gift in every order.
For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
