What is a come-hither motion in a vibrator? Come-hither describes the curling movement of a finger beckoning someone closer. Made inside the vagina, that movement presses and strokes the front wall, where the G-spot is. Most vibrators only shake against that spot. Flexer has a motor that moves the insertable arm in this curling way, so you get pressure and movement as well as vibration. It can run by itself or together with the two vibration motors, one inside and one over the clitoris.
Lovense Flexer: wearable fingering motion plus vibration
Lovense Flexer is a wearable silicone toy with an insertable arm and a clitoral arm, held in place by your underwear. It has three motors. Two vibrate, one against the G-spot and one against the clitoris. The third drives a come-hither movement in the insertable arm, pressing and stroking the front wall the way a curled finger would. Each motor can be switched on separately.
The toy carries seven preset patterns, and the Lovense Remote app lets you control the clitoral vibration, the G-spot vibration and the finger motion independently or together. You can also build patterns, sync to music or sound, or give the controls to a partner at any distance.
Best for: Flexer suits people who like G-spot pressure and clitoral vibration together and want it hands-free. It is insertable, worn inside underwear, and used solo, during foreplay, or by couples who are apart. Lovense's own chart rates it for intermediate and advanced users.
At a glance: Three motors · Come-hither motion · IPX7 waterproof · App controlled · 3.2 in insertable
Key features
| Three motors |
Clitoral vibration, G-spot vibration and finger motion, each one switched on independently. |
| Come-hither movement |
The insertable arm presses and strokes the G-spot area like a beckoning finger. |
| Wearable shape |
Light and smooth enough to wear under clothes, leaving both hands free. |
| Lovense Remote app |
Run each motor separately, create patterns, sync to music or sound, and share control. |
| Seven preset patterns |
Built-in patterns work from the button, with room for 10 more of your own. |
| IPX7 waterproof |
Can be used in the bath or shower and washed under running water. |
| Soft silicone body |
A smooth silicone surface that weighs 3.4 oz in total. |
Specifications
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Overall height: 4 in
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Width: 1.3 in
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Insertable length: 3.2 in
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Insertable arm width: 1.4 in
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Clitoral arm length: 2.1 in
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Weight: 3.4 oz
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Material: Silicone
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Motors: 3
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Functions: Vibration and come-hither motion
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Preset patterns: 7
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Run time: 65 to 120 minutes, depending on level
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Charge time: About 70 minutes
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Standby time: Up to 120 hours
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Charging: Magnetic USB cable
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Waterproofing: IPX7 waterproof
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Controls: Button on the toy, Lovense Remote app
In the box
- Flexer insertable dual panty vibrator
- USB charging cable
- User manual
How to use
Charge Flexer for about 70 minutes; a solid red light shows the magnetic cable is seated. Apply water-based lubricant to yourself and to the longer, thicker arm. Insert that arm so the curve faces the front of your body, and let the slimmer arm rest over the clitoris. Pull close-fitting underwear up over it to hold it there. Press and hold the power button for three to five seconds until it buzzes. Use the button for the preset patterns, or open the Lovense Remote app to run the finger motion and each vibrator separately.
Care
- Use water-based lubricant only; silicone and oil-based lubricants can damage the surface.
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after each use.
- Dry thoroughly before storing. Do not boil it or put it in a dishwasher.
- Do not use Flexer while it is charging.
- Keep away from extreme heat or cold and recharge at least once every six months.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
What do the three motors do?
One vibrates against the clitoris, one vibrates against the G-spot, and the third moves the insertable arm in a come-hither motion that feels like fingering. In the Lovense Remote app you can run any one of them alone or combine them.
How does Flexer stay in place?
It is designed to be worn inside your underwear. The insertable arm anchors it inside and the fabric holds the outer arm against the clitoris. Unlike Lovense Ferri, it has no magnetic cap, so snug underwear helps.
What is the difference between Flexer and Ferri?
Flexer goes inside as well as outside: it has a 3.2 in insertable arm, three motors and a finger-like motion, and weighs 3.4 oz. Ferri is a 1.2 oz external vibrator with one motor that clips to underwear with a magnet and is not inserted.
How long does the battery last?
Lovense gives 65 to 120 minutes of continuous use, with the shorter time at the highest level. A full charge takes about 70 minutes according to the user guide, and the toy can sit on standby for up to 120 hours.
Is Flexer waterproof?
Yes, it is rated IPX7 waterproof, so you can use it in the bath or shower and wash it under the tap. Dry it completely before you store it or attach the charging cable.
Go hands-free with Flexer
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
