How do I use a very large dildo safely? Take your time and let size be the last thing you add. Warm up with fingers or a smaller toy until you are fully relaxed. Use far more lubricant than you think you need and reapply often. Go in slowly, stop whenever you meet resistance, and never push through pain. You do not have to take the whole length. With a toy 2.5 inches wide, a slow, patient start matters more than anything else.
Bad Boy Next Door: 13 inches with built-in vibration
Bad Boy Next Door is the largest dildo in the Loverboy line. It is 13 inches long with 9.5 inches insertable, 2.5 inches wide and 7.85 inches around. It has a realistic shape with balls, and a stainless steel ring pierces the head for extra stimulation. The body is listed as body-safe TPE with no phthalates, latex, paraffin or synthetic fragrance.
The vibration controls sit right above the suction cup, so there are no trailing wires. An EZ dial sets the speed of the deep, rumbly motor. The suction cup base is removable, the toy is harness compatible, and it runs on 2 AA batteries. It is described as waterproof.
Best for: Strictly for experienced size enthusiasts. At 2.5 inches wide it is beyond what most people can take comfortably, and it needs warm-up and patience. It can be ridden on a smooth surface or worn in a harness.
At a glance: 13 in long · 9.5 in insertable · 2.5 in wide · Multispeed dial · Waterproof
Key features
| Extra-large size |
13 inches long and 2.5 inches wide, with 9.5 inches insertable. |
| Pierced head |
A stainless steel ring through the head adds a distinct point of sensation. |
| Built-in speed dial |
The dial sits above the suction cup, so there is no wired controller. |
| Deep, rumbly vibration |
Multiple adjustable speeds from a motor tuned for low, rumbling vibration. |
| Removable suction cup |
Mount it on a smooth, flat surface or take the cup off. |
| Harness compatible |
Can be worn in a strap-on harness for partner play. |
Specifications
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Length: 13 in
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Insertable length: 9.5 in
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Width: 2.5 in
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Circumference: 7.85 in
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Material: TPE, with a stainless steel ring
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Power: 2 AA batteries
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Control: EZ dial, multiple speeds
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Base: Removable suction cup, harness compatible
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Waterproof: Yes
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Color: Flesh
How to use
Fit 2 AA batteries and close the compartment securely. Wash the dildo and check that the steel ring is seated firmly. Press the suction cup onto a clean, smooth, flat surface, or remove the cup if you plan to hold the toy. Warm up thoroughly with smaller toys first. Cover the head and shaft in water-based lubricant. Lower yourself onto the head slowly, with the vibration off, and take only as much as is comfortable. Turn the dial above the suction cup to bring the vibration in gradually. Stop if you feel pain.
Care
- Use water-based lubricant only.
- Wash with warm water and mild soap after each use, cleaning carefully around the steel ring.
- Dry it completely, including the ring and the suction cup.
- Remove the batteries before storing it for any length of time.
- Do not boil it or put it in a dishwasher.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Just how big is it?
It is 13 inches long overall, 9.5 inches insertable, 2.5 inches wide and 7.85 inches in circumference. That puts it in the extra-large category. It is not suitable as a first or even a second dildo.
What is the ring in the head?
It is a stainless steel ring set through the head like a piercing. It adds a firm, cool point of contact. Check that it is secure before each use and wash around it carefully.
Where are the controls?
On the toy itself. A dial just above the suction cup sets the speed, so there is no separate wired controller. It takes 2 AA batteries, and the listing does not say they are included.
Is it waterproof?
An earlier maker description and the distributor's category list both call it waterproof and suitable for the bath. Make sure the battery compartment is fully closed before it goes in water.
Will it fit a harness?
It is listed as harness compatible. Because the shaft is 2.5 inches wide and the toy is very large, you need a harness with a large or interchangeable ring and firm, supportive straps.
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
