What can you do with a suction cup dildo? A suction cup base turns a dildo into a hands-free toy. Press it onto a smooth, flat, non-porous surface such as a tiled wall, the side of a bathtub, a glass door or a hard floor, and it holds the shaft steady while you move. That leaves both hands free and lets you choose the height and angle. The same flat base usually fits the O-ring of a strap-on harness. The Mailman offers both: its base sticks to smooth surfaces and is harness compatible.
Loverboy The Mailman: length, girth and a firm grip
The Mailman is a realistic dildo in the Loverboy line, listed by the distributor as the 8.5 inch model. It is built for people who like both length and thickness. The head has a prominent ridge, the shaft is detailed to look and feel lifelike, and large balls sit at the base. It is made of TPE with no phthalates, paraffin or latex.
A powerful suction cup holds it on smooth, flat surfaces for hands-free play. The base is also harness compatible, so the same toy works as a strap-on. The maker describes it as easy to clean. Water-based lubricant is the right match for the TPE.
Best for: A fit for experienced users who want a larger realistic dildo they can ride hands-free or wear in a harness. The defined ridge on the head suits anyone who likes a clear sensation on entry. Those new to dildos may prefer a smaller Loverboy model first.
At a glance: 8.5 in · TPE · Suction cup base · Harness compatible · Realistic with balls
Key features
| Prominent ridge |
A defined edge around the head adds sensation on every pass. |
| Large balls |
Complete the realistic look and give a natural stop at the base. |
| Powerful suction cup |
Sticks to smooth, flat surfaces for hands-free play. |
| Harness compatible |
Fits a strap-on harness for use with a partner. |
| Realistic TPE |
Soft material sculpted to look and feel lifelike, free of phthalates, paraffin and latex. |
Specifications
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Size: 8.5 in (as listed by the distributor)
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Material: TPE
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Color: Mocha
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Base: Suction cup, harness compatible
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Free of: Phthalates, paraffin, latex
How to use
Wash the dildo and dry it before first use. To mount it, choose a smooth, flat, clean surface, moisten the suction cup lightly and press it down hard from the center so the air is pushed out. Tug the shaft to check that it holds. Coat the shaft with water-based lubricant. Because The Mailman is long and thick, lower yourself onto the head slowly and take only as much as feels comfortable. For strap-on use, feed the shaft through the harness ring from behind so the balls and base sit against the ring.
Care
- Use water-based lubricant only; silicone and oil-based lubricants can damage TPE.
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner after every use. Do not boil it.
- Dry it completely, including under the balls and inside the suction cup.
- TPE is porous, so use a condom if you share the dildo.
- Store it by itself in a cool, dark place so it does not touch other toys.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
How big is The Mailman?
The distributor lists it as the 8.5 inch model and describes it as long and thick. Neither source gives an insertable length or a width, so we cannot list those. Expect a larger-than-average dildo and plan on using plenty of lubricant.
What surfaces does the suction cup stick to?
It grips smooth, flat surfaces such as tile, glass, a bathtub edge or a sealed floor. It will not hold on rough, porous or textured surfaces. Clean the surface first and dampen the cup slightly for a stronger seal.
Can I use it in a strap-on harness?
Yes, it is harness compatible. Use a harness with an O-ring wide enough for a thick shaft. The balls and base sit behind the ring and keep the dildo in place while you move.
What lubricant works with TPE?
Use water-based lubricant only. Silicone and oil-based lubricants can break down TPE and make the surface sticky. Reapply as needed, since water-based lubricant dries faster, especially on a toy of this size.
How does it compare with Top Gun Tommy?
Both are Loverboy dildos with a suction cup and harness fit. Top Gun Tommy is the average-sized option at 6 inches long and 1.4 inches wide, in PVC. The Mailman is the bigger toy, listed at 8.5 inches, and is made of TPE.
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
