Why wear a strap-on on the thigh? A thigh harness moves the dildo from the hips to the upper leg. The wearer can sit or lie back while their partner straddles the thigh and sets the pace. Both people stay close and face to face, and the wearer's hands and genitals are left free. It needs no hip movement from the wearer, which helps anyone with limited mobility or back strain, and it avoids the fitting that a waist harness requires.
Lover's Thigh Harness: a strap-on for your leg
The Lover's Thigh Harness from the Bedroom Bliss Signature Collection is a wide band of neoprene that wraps around the thigh and closes at the back with two Velcro straps. A 1.5 inch O-ring is built into the front to hold most strap-on dildos. The neoprene is smooth, slightly padded and stretchy, a material similar to that used for wetsuits.
It adjusts to thighs from 15 to 21 inches around. The material is absorbent, which helps during longer sessions, and the whole harness can be machine washed in cold water and tumble dried on low. The band measures 22 inches long by 10.75 inches wide.
Best for: For couples who want a strap-on position where the receiving partner is on top and in control. It also suits wearers who find hip harnesses awkward or tiring. Check that your thigh measures between 15 and 21 inches around.
At a glance: Fits 15 to 21 in thigh · 1.5 in O-ring · Neoprene · 2 Velcro straps · Machine washable
Key features
| Thigh-mounted design |
Places the dildo on the upper leg so a partner can straddle and ride. |
| Built-in O-ring |
A 1.5 inch ring at the front takes most strap-on dildos with a flared base. |
| Soft neoprene |
Stretchy, padded material sits smoothly on the leg and absorbs moisture. |
| Two Velcro straps |
Closures at the back make it quick to put on, adjust and remove. |
| Machine washable |
Wash it in cold water and tumble dry on low. |
Specifications
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Overall: 22 in length x 10.75 in width
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Thigh fit: Adjusts from 15 in to 21 in circumference
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O-ring inner diameter: 1.5 in
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Material: Neoprene
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Color: Black
How to use
Push your chosen dildo through the O-ring from the inside so the flared base sits flat against the neoprene. Wrap the harness around your upper thigh with the dildo on top and fasten both Velcro straps at the back. It should feel snug, with no pinching and no slipping when you tense the leg. Sit or lie back with that knee slightly bent. Apply lubricant to the dildo, using one that suits the dildo's material. Your partner then straddles your thigh and lowers themselves at their own pace. Tighten the straps again if the band shifts.
Care
- Machine wash in cold water only, to keep the neoprene elastic. Hand washing also works.
- Tumble dry on low, or lay flat to air dry.
- Close the Velcro straps before washing so they do not catch on other fabric.
- Remove the dildo and clean it separately according to its material.
- Store it dry and unfolded.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
What thigh size does it fit?
It adjusts from 15 inches to 21 inches in thigh circumference. Measure around the fullest part of your upper thigh. The band itself is 22 inches long and 10.75 inches wide.
Which dildos work with it?
The built-in O-ring has a 1.5 inch inner diameter, which the distributor says accepts most strap-on dildos. The dildo needs a flared base wider than the ring so that it stays in place.
Is a dildo included?
No dildo is listed in the distributor's product information. The harness is used with a dildo you already own or buy separately. Pick one with a flared base that is wider than the 1.5 inch O-ring.
How do I wash it?
Machine wash in cold water and tumble dry on low. Cold water protects the stretch of the neoprene. You can also wash it by hand. Close the Velcro straps first so they do not snag.
How is it different from a waist harness?
A waist harness sits on the hips and the wearer does the thrusting. This one sits on the thigh, the wearer stays still, and the partner on top controls depth and rhythm.
Let them take the lead
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
