How does a self-lubricating stroker work? The sleeve material is made to turn slick when it gets wet. Instead of reaching for a bottle, you add a little water or saliva to the opening and the surface becomes slippery within moments. If it starts to dry during use, add a few more drops. You can still use a water-based lubricant on top if you prefer a thicker feel, but with this stroker you do not have to.
Soft and Wet stroker: add water and go
The M for Men Soft and Wet is a pocket stroker in a cup, with a vulva-style opening and a soft, flexible TPE sleeve. The sleeve is self-lubricating: wet it with a little water or saliva and it turns slippery. Inside, the channel is lined with ribs, the pleasure ridges of the name, which stroke the shaft on every pass.
Two things let you change the feel during use. An air valve on the cup opens or closes to adjust the suction. The middle of the cup can also be squeezed, which narrows the channel for a tighter grip. No batteries are involved.
Best for: A practical pick for men who want a simple, low-fuss masturbator. It suits anyone who dislikes dealing with lubricant, and those who like to control tightness and suction by hand rather than rely on a fixed fit.
At a glance: Self-lubricating TPE · Ribbed interior · Adjustable air valve · Squeezable cup
Key features
| Self-lubricating sleeve |
Turns slick with a little water or saliva, so no bottle of lubricant is needed. |
| Ribbed interior |
Rows of ridges inside the channel add texture along the shaft. |
| Air valve |
Open or close the valve to change the level of suction. |
| Squeezable cup |
Press the center of the cup to tighten the sleeve around you. |
| Soft, flexible TPE |
A soft sleeve material that stretches to fit. |
Specifications
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Material: TPE
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Interior: Ribbed
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Lubrication: Self-lubricating when wet
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Suction: Adjustable air valve
How to use
Rinse the sleeve with warm water before first use. Wet the opening and the inside of the channel with a little water or saliva and wait a moment for the surface to turn slippery. Slide in slowly. With the air valve open the stroke is light and easy. Close the valve to build suction. Squeeze the center of the cup with your hand when you want a tighter feel, and release to loosen it. Add a few more drops of water if the sleeve begins to dry.
Care
- If you add lubricant, use a water-based one only; other types can damage TPE.
- Rinse the sleeve thoroughly with warm water and mild soap after every use.
- Leave the cup open and let the inside air dry completely before closing it.
- Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
- Do not boil it or put it in a dishwasher.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need lubricant with it?
Not necessarily. The sleeve is self-lubricating and becomes slippery when you add a little water or saliva. If you want extra glide, a water-based lubricant is safe with TPE. Use it sparingly.
How do I change the suction?
Use the air valve on the cup. Opening it lets air through for a lighter stroke. Closing it traps air and increases suction. Squeezing the cup at the same time tightens the sleeve further.
What does the inside feel like?
The channel has a ribbed interior. The ridges run along the sleeve and add a rippling texture as you move, and the TPE itself is soft and flexible. Squeezing the cup presses the ridges closer.
Will it fit me?
The distributor does not give the channel length or width. TPE is stretchy and the sleeve is described as soft and flexible, and you tighten it by squeezing the cup, so the fit is adjustable by hand.
How do I clean it?
Rinse the sleeve with warm water and mild soap straight after use, then let it dry fully with the cup open. A sleeve that is closed while damp can develop odor.
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.