What is a locking steel collar for? In a Dominant and submissive relationship, a collar is often worn as a sign of commitment, a little like a ring. A locking steel collar makes that literal: it closes with a hex key, so it stays on until the key holder opens it. Because this one is a plain, narrow steel band, it also passes as ordinary jewelry. It is a symbol and an accessory, not a restraint, and it should never be fitted tightly or pulled on.
Possession locking collar in stainless steel
Possession is a rigid stainless steel collar with a band 0.3 inches wide and an inner circumference of 17.6 inches. It closes around the neck and locks with the included hex key. The look is plain and understated, so it works as a symbol of a Dominant and submissive relationship or simply as a piece of steel jewelry.
The steel is nickel-free and non-porous, which suits sensitive skin and makes cleaning simple. According to the maker it can stay on for short scenes or be worn long term, for weeks or months, and washed in the shower while it is on.
Best for: Suits couples who want a day collar that locks, and anyone who likes the weight of steel at the neck. This listing is the XL size, with a fixed 17.6 inch inner circumference, so measure the neck first. It does not adjust.
At a glance: Stainless steel · Nickel-free · Hex key lock · 17.6 in inner circumference · 0.3 in band
Key features
| Hex key lock |
The collar is locked with the included hex key once it is in place around the neck. |
| Nickel-free stainless steel |
A strong, non-porous metal chosen for sensitive skin and easy cleaning. |
| Slim 0.3 inch band |
Narrow enough to pass as jewelry with everyday clothes. |
| Made for long wear |
Can be kept on for a short scene or worn for weeks or months at a time. |
| Easy to wash |
Clean it with soap and water in the shower, or boil it once it is off. |
Specifications
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Size: XL
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Inner circumference: 17.6 in
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Band width: 0.3 in
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Material: Stainless steel
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Color: Silver
In the box
- Stainless steel collar
- Hex key
How to use
Measure the wearer's neck before ordering. The collar has a fixed 17.6 inch inner circumference and should sit loosely enough that two fingers slide under it with ease. Open the collar, place it around the neck and close it. Use the hex key to lock it. Keep the key somewhere both partners can reach quickly, and consider carrying it when you are out. Take the collar off if it rubs, feels tight when swallowing or lying down, or before any medical scan. Do not attach a leash to it or pull on it.
Care
- Wash with soap and water. This can be done in the shower while the collar is on.
- For a thorough clean, remove it and boil it in water.
- Dry the collar and the skin under it after washing.
- Keep the hex key in a set place so the collar can always be opened quickly.
- Store it dry when it is not being worn.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Will the XL size fit me?
The inner circumference is 17.6 inches and it cannot be adjusted. Measure around the base of your neck and allow room for two fingers. If your neck measures much less than that, the collar will sit low and loose on the collarbones.
Can it really be worn for weeks?
The maker describes it as suitable for long-term wear, for weeks or months at a time. Wash it in the shower with soap and water, dry the skin under it, and take it off if you notice any soreness or irritation.
How does the lock work?
The collar closes around the neck and is secured with the included hex key. It is not a padlock, so there is nothing hanging from the band. Whoever holds the key should keep it somewhere easy to reach in case the collar needs to come off fast.
Is it safe for sensitive skin?
The collar is made of nickel-free stainless steel, which the maker recommends for sensitive skin types. The metal is non-porous, so it does not hold on to sweat or soap once it has been rinsed and dried.
Does it look like a fetish collar?
Not obviously. It is a plain steel band 0.3 inches wide with no rings or studs mentioned by the maker, so it reads as a minimal choker. It pairs with other steel or silver jewelry.
Lock in the commitment
Add the Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar to your cart for plain packaging, privacy-safe billing and a mystery gift in every order.
For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
