What is a day collar? A day collar is a collar made to look like ordinary jewelry, so it can be worn outside the bedroom. To most people it reads as a necklace. To the wearer and their partner it marks a dominant and submissive bond. This one uses a strand of faux pearls joined to a gold chain, and it closes with a gold lock that opens with a key. The partner who holds the key decides when it comes off.
Pearl Day Collar: a collar that passes as jewelry
The Pearl Day Collar is a piece of submissive jewelry from the Sportsheets Sex and Mischief line. A strand of faux pearls meets a length of gold chain, and the two are connected by a gold lock with its own key. The fit is adjustable, so it can be set to suit the wearer. It looks like a necklace, which is the whole point of a day collar.
It also works on the wrist. Wrap the pearls around your wrist and lock them to the chain, and the collar becomes a bracelet. That gives you a quieter way to wear it on days when a necklace does not suit the outfit or the setting.
Best for: For couples in a dominant and submissive dynamic who want a symbol of it that can be worn in public. It suits a submissive who prefers jewelry to leather, and it makes a fitting gift at a collaring. It is decorative, so do not attach a leash to it.
At a glance: Faux pearls · Gold chain · Gold lock and key · Adjustable · Converts to a bracelet
Key features
| Faux pearl strand |
Gives the collar the look of a classic necklace instead of bondage gear. |
| Gold chain |
Pairs with the pearls and connects to the lock. |
| Gold lock and key |
Closes the collar and lets a partner hold the key. |
| Adjustable fit |
Can be set to suit the wearer's neck. |
| Bracelet option |
Wraps around the wrist and locks to the chain for wear as a bracelet. |
Specifications
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Materials: Faux pearls, gold chain
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Closure: Gold lock with key
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Fit: Adjustable
How to use
Open the lock with the key and lay the collar flat. Place it around the neck, set the length so it rests comfortably, and close the lock. You should be able to slide two fingers under it. Keep the key somewhere safe, or hand it to your partner. To wear it as a bracelet, wrap the pearl strand around the wrist, bring it to the chain and lock the two together. Take it off before sleeping, showering or exercise, and never clip a leash or restraint to it.
Care
- Wipe the pearls and chain with a soft dry cloth after wear.
- Keep it away from water, perfume, lotion and lubricant, which can dull faux pearls and the gold finish.
- Store it flat or in a pouch so the chain does not tangle.
- Keep the key with the collar when it is not being worn.
- Check the lock and the links for wear from time to time.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Can I wear it in public?
Yes, that is what a day collar is for. The faux pearls and gold chain look like regular jewelry, and the gold lock reads as a pendant. On days when a necklace does not fit the outfit, it can be wrapped and locked around the wrist as a bracelet instead.
Does it come with a key?
Yes. The maker describes it as closing with a lock and key. Many couples have the dominant partner hold the key. Keep it somewhere you can reach quickly in case the collar needs to come off in a hurry.
Will it fit my neck?
The collar is listed as adjustable, but the maker does not publish a neck size range. If you have a larger neck or want a very close choker fit, keep that in mind. The bracelet option is there if the length does not suit you as a necklace.
Can I attach a leash to it?
No. This is a jewelry piece made of faux pearls and chain, not a restraint. It is meant to be worn as a symbol. For leash play, choose a collar built for it, with a D-ring and a sturdy strap.
Wear your collar every day
Add the Sex and Mischief Pearl Day Collar with Lock and Key to your cart for plain packaging, privacy-safe billing and a mystery gift in every order.
For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
