What is a day collar? A day collar is a collar made to be worn in public without drawing attention. To most people it looks like a choker or a necklace. To the wearer and their partner it carries a private meaning, often as a sign of a dominant and submissive relationship. Day collars are lighter and less obvious than play collars and are not built to take a leash under tension. The Sheer Day Collar is made of sheer mesh and fastens like jewelry.
Sheer Day Collar: a mesh choker with a private meaning
The Sheer Day Collar is part of the Sex and Mischief range by Sportsheets. It is made of sheer mesh, which gives it a light, see-through look closer to a fashion choker than to bondage gear. It closes with a lobster claw clasp, the same kind of fastening found on necklaces, and the fit is adjustable.
It is meant for wearing out as much as for the bedroom. If you want a collar with more presence, the Sex and Mischief Heart Day Collar and Double Buckle Day Collar are made of faux leather.
Best for: For anyone who wants a collar they can wear all day without it looking like fetish gear. It suits couples who use a collar as a quiet symbol between them, and it works as a simple choker with an outfit.
At a glance: Sheer mesh · Lobster claw closure · Adjustable · Day collar
Key features
| Sheer mesh |
The see-through mesh band looks like a fashion choker. |
| Lobster claw closure |
It fastens with a jewelry-style clasp that is quick to open and close. |
| Adjustable |
The fit can be set to the neck. |
| Everyday wear |
As a day collar, it is subtle enough to wear in public. |
Specifications
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Material: Sheer mesh
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Closure: Lobster claw
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Fit: Adjustable
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Collection: Sex and Mischief
How to use
Open the lobster claw clasp, place the mesh band around the neck and fasten it at the back. Adjust it so it sits close without pressing, with room to slip two fingers underneath. Wear it as a choker with an outfit or as a symbol between you and your partner. It is a decorative piece, so do not attach a leash to it or pull on it.
Care
- Hand wash gently in cool water with a little mild soap, or wipe with a damp cloth.
- Lay it flat to dry. Do not wring or tumble dry the mesh.
- Fasten the clasp before storing so it does not snag the mesh.
- Keep it away from rough surfaces and sharp jewelry.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Will it fit my neck?
The maker lists the collar as adjustable. The facts available do not give a minimum or maximum length, so we cannot state the exact range it fits. Check the packaging if your neck is larger or smaller than average.
Can I attach a leash to it?
It is a sheer mesh day collar with a jewelry-style lobster claw clasp, made for wearing, not for restraint. Do not clip a leash to it or put tension on it.
How does it differ from the other Sex and Mischief day collars?
This one is sheer mesh with a lobster claw clasp, the lightest look of the three. The Heart Day Collar is faux leather with linked hearts and a lock. The Double Buckle Day Collar is faux leather with two gold buckles.
Wear it every day
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
