Why use a blindfold during sex? Covering the eyes shifts attention to the other senses. When you cannot see what is coming, each touch, sound and change of temperature registers more strongly, and anticipation builds between them. A blindfold is also one of the gentlest ways to try giving up a little control, since it can be removed in a second. A sheer lace style like this one softens vision instead of blocking it fully, which many beginners find less daunting.
Boudoir Lace Blindfold by Secret Kisses
The Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Blindfold is a soft, sheer lace eye covering for couples. It lies delicately over the eyes and gives the wearer an air of mystery, which makes it as much a costume piece as a bondage accessory. The distributor recommends it for role-play and for people who are new to kink and BDSM.
Best for: For couples who want to try sensory play or role-play without heavy gear. Because the lace is sheer, it suits wearers who feel uneasy about total darkness. It also works as a lingerie accessory or a masquerade-style prop.
At a glance: Sheer lace · Soft feel · Entry-level kink · For couples
Key features
| Sheer lace |
Light, see-through lace that veils the eyes. |
| Soft against the skin |
A gentle material that sits comfortably on the face. |
| Beginner friendly |
A simple first accessory for exploring kink as a couple. |
Specifications
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Material: Lace
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Style: Sheer blindfold
How to use
Talk through what you both want and agree on a word that means stop. Place the lace over the wearer's eyes and fasten it at the back of the head so it stays put without pulling. Then slow down: use fingertips, breath, a feather or an ice cube and let your partner guess what comes next. Remove it whenever the wearer asks.
Care
- Hand wash in cool water with a mild detergent.
- Do not wring it; press the water out gently.
- Lay it flat to air dry, away from direct heat.
- Keep lubricants and massage oils off the lace where possible.
- Store it flat so the lace does not snag.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Can you see through it?
The blindfold is described as sheer lace that delicately covers the eyes. Sheer fabric softens and obscures vision but is unlikely to give complete blackout, so choose a padded blindfold if you want total darkness.
Is it suitable for beginners?
Yes. The distributor describes it as a good piece for entry-level kink and for couples' role-play. It is easy to put on and take off, and there is nothing to lock or buckle tightly.
How does it fasten, and will it fit?
The distributor does not describe the fastening or give measurements. Lace blindfolds usually tie or stretch at the back of the head, but check the packaging to be sure. It should sit lightly on the face.
Add a little mystery
Add the Secret Kisses Boudoir Lace Blindfold to your cart for plain packaging, privacy-safe billing and a mystery gift in every order.
For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
