Can I use my own dildo with this harness? Yes, as long as it has a flared base. The harness holds the dildo with an O-ring: the shaft passes through the ring and the wider base sits behind it, against the front panel. On the Rosegasm harness that ring is removable, and the maker says it gives a secure fit for a flared-base dildo of any size. The curved dildo supplied in the set is a starting point, and you can change it later.
Rosegasm Heart Shape harness and curved dildo set
The Secret Kisses Rosegasm set pairs a heart-shaped strap-on harness with a curved dildo. The straps adjust fully, so one harness can be set to different bodies. The dildo has an ergonomic curve in the shaft that is meant to reach the G-spot or the prostate, depending on the partner receiving. The O-ring at the front comes off. That lets you fit a different flared-base dildo when you want a change of size or shape, without buying a second harness.
Best for: For couples who want a ready-to-use strap-on set for vaginal or anal play, including pegging. It suits first-time harness buyers because the dildo is included, and anyone who likes gear that looks decorative as well as practical.
At a glance: Fully adjustable · Curved dildo included · Removable O-ring · Heart-shaped front
Key features
| Heart-shaped harness |
A styled front panel that looks good as well as holding the dildo. |
| Fully adjustable fit |
Straps tighten or loosen to suit the wearer. |
| Curved dildo included |
The ergonomic shaft is angled to reach the G-spot or P-spot. |
| Removable O-ring |
Holds flared-base dildos securely and lets you change them. |
Specifications
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Type: Strap-on harness with dildo
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Dildo shape: Curved shaft
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O-ring: Removable
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Fit: Fully adjustable
In the box
- Heart Shape strap-on harness
- Curved dildo
How to use
Push the dildo through the O-ring from the back so its flared base rests flat behind the ring. Step into the harness and loosen every strap first. Position the front panel low on the pubic bone, then tighten the straps evenly until the harness is snug and the dildo does not sag. Apply lubricant to the dildo and to your partner, start slowly, and let the receiving partner set the pace. Check the straps again after a few minutes, as they can settle once you start moving.
Care
- Use plenty of lubricant; water-based is the safe choice when the material is not stated.
- Take the dildo out of the harness and wash it with warm water and mild soap after each use.
- Wipe the harness clean with a damp cloth and let it air dry.
- Store the dildo apart from other toys, in a cool, dry place.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Who can wear it?
The straps are fully adjustable, so the harness can be fitted to different body shapes. The maker does not publish a waist or hip range, so we cannot give exact limits.
Is the dildo for vaginal or anal use?
Either. The curved shaft is described as suitable for reaching the G-spot or the P-spot. Use a generous amount of lubricant for anal play and wash the dildo between partners or between anal and vaginal use.
Will other dildos fit?
The O-ring is removable and the maker says it secures any size of dildo that has a flared base. A dildo without a flared base cannot be held by the ring.
Is this a good first strap-on?
It is a practical one, since the harness and a curved dildo arrive together and the fit adjusts. Go slowly the first time and use more lubricant than you think you need.
Get the Rosegasm set
Add the Secret Kisses Rosegasm Heart Shape Strap-On Harness with Dildo to your cart for plain packaging, privacy-safe billing and a mystery gift in every order.
For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
