Which O-ring size do I need for my dildo? The ring should be a little smaller than the dildo's base and close to the width of its shaft. Push the dildo through from behind. The shaft should pass with light resistance and the flared base should stop firmly against the ring. The Velvet Kiss comes with three rings, with inner diameters of 1.5, 1.75 and 2 inches. Try each one with your dildo before you put the harness on, and choose the ring that holds it without wobble.
Velvet Kiss: a soft-lined harness for any dildo size
The Velvet Kiss Strap-On Harness from the Bedroom Bliss Signature Collection is made of vegan leather with a velvet inner lining that keeps the straps from chafing. A waist strap and two thigh straps tighten through metal D-rings. At the front, an O-ring snaps into place to hold a dildo, and three rings are supplied so you can move between small, medium and large toys.
The back is open. The straps run around the thighs and leave the wearer's rear and genitals accessible, so the person wearing the harness can still be touched. All the metal is nickel-free. The harness comes in black and is wiped clean with a damp cloth.
Best for: For couples who want one harness that works with several dildos, and for wearers who want to stay accessible during play. The waist range of 22 to 54 inches covers many body sizes. It is used with a flared-base dildo of your own choice.
At a glance: 3 O-ring sizes · Fits 22 to 54 in waist · Velvet lining · Vegan leather · Open back
Key features
| Three O-rings |
Rings of 1.5, 1.75 and 2 inches snap in to match small, medium or large dildos. |
| Velvet lining |
A soft inner layer sits against the skin and reduces chafing as you move. |
| Vegan leather |
Soft, supple faux leather with the look of the real thing. |
| D-ring adjustment |
Nickel-free metal D-rings tighten or loosen the waist and thigh straps. |
| Open back |
Thigh straps leave the wearer's rear uncovered and reachable. |
Specifications
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Waist: Adjusts from 22 in to 54 in circumference
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Thigh straps: Adjust up to 30 in length
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O-ring inner diameters: 1.5 in, 1.75 in, 2 in
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Materials: Vegan leather, velvet, metal
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Color: Black
In the box
- Harness
- 3 O-rings (1.5 in, 1.75 in, 2 in)
How to use
Start with the dildo. Test it in each O-ring and pick the one the shaft passes through while the wide base stays behind it. Snap that ring into the front of the harness and seat the dildo. Step into the harness and pull the waist strap up so it sits above your hip bones. Tighten it through the D-rings, then tighten each thigh strap until the front panel lies flat and the dildo does not sag. Move your hips to check nothing slips. Apply plenty of lubricant to the dildo and let your partner guide it at first.
Care
- Wipe the vegan leather with a damp cloth after use.
- For stains, rub in a little unscented soap and wipe it off with a damp cloth.
- Dry with a soft, dry cloth. Do not soak or machine wash the harness.
- Remove and wash the dildo separately, following its own material instructions.
- Store flat or hanging, away from heat and sunlight.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
What waist sizes does it fit?
The waist strap adjusts from 22 inches to 54 inches in circumference, and each thigh strap adjusts up to 30 inches in length. Measure around your body just above the hip bones, where the harness is meant to sit.
Does it come with a dildo?
The distributor's information lists the harness and three O-rings only, with no dildo mentioned. Choose a dildo with a wide, flared base so the ring can hold it securely. Test it in all three rings.
What size dildos will it hold?
The three O-rings have inner diameters of 1.5, 1.75 and 2 inches. The dildo's shaft has to pass through the ring and its base has to be wider than the ring. Test the fit before you strap in.
What does open back mean?
The harness has no panel between the legs or across the rear. The straps wrap around the thighs, which leaves the wearer uncovered and able to receive touch or toys while wearing it.
Is it real leather?
No. It is vegan leather with a velvet lining and nickel-free metal hardware. Clean it by wiping with a damp cloth, since it should not be soaked. Dry it afterward with a soft cloth.
One harness, three ring sizes
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For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
