How is an adjustable tie cock ring different from a standard ring? A standard cock ring has one fixed diameter and relies on stretch to fit. A tie-style ring works like a bolo tie: you loop it around the base of the penis and slide the fastener until it feels snug. That lets you choose the exact diameter, loosen it mid-session, and take it off quickly without rolling a tight band back over an erection. It also means one ring can suit different sizes.
Black Tie Affair: a cock ring you tighten yourself
The Zero Tolerance Black Tie Affair is a silicone cock ring built like a tie. Instead of a fixed band, you set the diameter yourself, so the fit can be as light or as firm as you like. A textured platform sits on top to press against a partner during sex, and an ABS bullet with 10 speeds sends vibration through the whole ring.
The loose ends of the tie hang down and carry some of the vibration between the thighs. The toy charges by USB and is fully submersible, so it can go in the bath or shower. It is free of phthalates and latex.
Best for: For couples who want a vibrating ring that both partners feel, and for wearers who find fixed rings too tight or too loose. The adjustable loop makes it a sensible first cock ring, since you can start loose and tighten gradually.
At a glance: Adjustable fit · 10-speed bullet · Silicone · USB rechargeable · Submersible
Key features
| Adjustable tie loop |
Slide it to the diameter you want and loosen it again in seconds. |
| 10-speed bullet |
An ABS bullet gives ten settings of vibration for both partners. |
| Textured platform |
A raised, textured pad on top makes contact with your partner. |
| Dangling ties |
The ends of the tie pass vibration on between the thighs. |
| Fully submersible |
Safe to use in the bath or shower. |
| USB rechargeable |
Charges with the included cord, so there are no batteries to replace. |
Specifications
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Ring material: Silicone
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Bullet material: ABS
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Vibration: 10 speeds
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Power: USB rechargeable
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Waterproof: Yes, completely submersible
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Body safety: Phthalate free, latex free
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Color: Black
In the box
- Black Tie Affair
- USB charging cord
How to use
Charge the bullet fully with the USB cord before first use. Open the loop wide and put a little water-based lubricant on the inside. Place it around the base of the penis, with the textured platform facing up, then slide the fastener until the ring is snug but not painful. Switch on the bullet and move through the speeds to find one you both like. To remove it, loosen the loop first and then lift it off. As general guidance, do not wear a cock ring for more than about 20 to 30 minutes at a time.
Care
- Use water-based lubricant only with the silicone ring.
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner after each use, then dry.
- Recharge with the supplied USB cord and make sure the toy is dry first.
- Never boil it or put it in a dishwasher.
- Store it apart from other silicone toys.
More on materials in our material safety guide.
Frequently asked questions
Will it fit me?
The maker gives no minimum or maximum diameter, but the ring is not a fixed size. You tighten the tie loop to suit yourself, so it adapts to a wide range of sizes. Start loose and tighten a little at a time.
How long can I wear it?
As general guidance, keep any cock ring on for no more than about 20 to 30 minutes at a time. Loosen or remove it sooner if you feel numbness, coldness or pain. The adjustable loop makes quick removal easy.
Can I use it in water?
Yes. The maker describes it as completely submersible, so the bath and shower are both fine. Dry the ring and bullet fully before you plug in the USB cord to recharge.
How many vibration settings are there?
The bullet has 10 speeds. The vibration travels through the ring, the textured platform on top and the hanging tie ends, so both the wearer and the partner feel it.
Which lubricant works with it?
Use a water-based lubricant. The ring is silicone, and silicone-based lubricants can damage the surface of silicone toys over time. A small amount inside the loop also helps it slide into place comfortably.
Dress up your next night
Add the Zero Tolerance Black Tie Affair Adjustable Vibrating Cock Ring to your cart for plain packaging, privacy-safe billing and a mystery gift in every order.
For adult use only. Read the instruction manual before first use. Specifications are the manufacturer's.
